Do you suspect your spouse of infidelity?

Ruth Houston, our resident expert on infidelity, says that there are at least 14 things everyone should know about signs of infidelity. I imagine there are a lot more.

The one thing I find truly interesting is that Ruth says that most cheaters display signs of infidelity that they're not even aware of. Is that really true? You'd think that a cheater would be hyper-sensitive to all their actions and their speech. I guess that lying is part and parcel of cheating.

I have a problem with lying-- I just don't do it very well. I find it's just way too difficult trying to keep track of which lie I told to which person. Of course this is over and above the fact that lying is wrong. Plus I just feel tremendous guilt. It eats me up.

Click here for Ruth's article on infidelity.